I was sexually abused as a child by my then-stepdad. I randomly get thoughts about the possibility of my now-stepdad & stepdad-in-law doing something to my daughter. They are only passing thoughts and I quickly shut the thoughts down before I let them take over my mind. I know the thoughts are because of my trauma, and have nothing to do with them as people. I work in childcare and have done lots of child protection courses, so am very aware of the horrible statistics of children getting abused by family / close friends, which obviously worsens the anxiety.
I'm just hoping to get some advice from someone that has experience or knowledge in the area. No one knows what I went through as a child so I can't speak to anyone close to me about it.